Did you know that around 40% of Americans claim to have a BDSM kink or fetish?

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    Are you curious about a kink, but are worried about how your partner will react?

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    Has your partner confided an interest in something, but it scares you?

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    Are you worried that you are 'weird' or 'crazy' for being curious about a kink?

 

    There are many myths and stigmas regarding the terms: BDSM, kink, fetish, power-play, and role-playing.  I can help you work through issues that either you may have or you fear your partner may have.  I won't judge or condemn you.  You aren't weird or crazy. In fact, there is a good chance your particular BDSM, kink or fetish is way more common than you originally thought.

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     Also, there is a difference between being in an abusive relationship and being in a healthy BDSM relationship.  Unfortunately, some people try to use BDSM as a way to justify them being assholes.  If you have found yourself in a 'BDSM' relationship that was really just an abusive situation, know that you are not to blame. If you feel like talking about it and working on recovering from your trauma, please call me.